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Meeting dogs safely: 6 golden rules

Dogs make wonderful friends, but not every dog wants to be stroked by a stranger. These rules keep both you and the dog safe.

Issue 1 · November 2026 · 2 min read

Photo: NPS Photo / Emily Mesner, Public domain

6 golden rules

  1. First ask the owner: "May I stroke your dog?" If they say no, don't be sad — they have a good reason.
  2. Don't run or shout as you come closer. Approach slowly and stand a little side-on.
  3. Hold out your hand and let the dog sniff you. If it comes closer it's ready to say hello; if it moves away, don't push it.
  4. Stroke its chest or shoulder, not the top of its head. A hand reaching down from above can frighten a dog.
  5. Don't hug a dog or put your face close to its face. People love hugs; most dogs don't.
  6. Never touch a dog that is eating, sleeping, chewing a toy or with its puppies.

"Leave me alone" signs

A wagging tail doesn't always mean happy. If a dog yawns, licks its lips, turns its head away, shows the whites of its eyes, tucks its tail between its legs or suddenly freezes, it feels uncomfortable. Calmly step back.

If you meet a dog in the street

Don't run — dogs love chasing things that run. Walk calmly, keep your arms close to your body and don't stare into the dog's eyes. If you feel scared, stop and stand still like a tree; the dog will usually lose interest and leave. If you see an injured dog, don't touch it — tell a grown-up.

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